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Hi all and welcome to Angel Elise Blog. I am an angel card reader, Psychic/Medium and spiritualist from Liverpool UK. I have lots of family and friends whom I love dearly. My theory on life is that
this is all a game we have to play before we go back into the changing room for a rest. During the game we score as many goals as we can and learn as much as we can. We are all winners. No one loses but some may get a little lost along the way and lose sight of their goal. The ones who do lose their way need help not critisising and ridiculing. We are all here to help and guide those who need it.
Today's blog is about Loneliness
We all feel alone at times. It is a natural thing for us to do when we look around and see couples holding hands, looking deeply into each others eyes, showing their love for each other.... (excuse me while I vomit ..lol)In today's world though it seems that everyone NEEDS to be with someone. They NEED a partner in their life to make them happy. This is a load of nonsense. What they do need is to accept that they are who they are and to find love within themselves first as they are obviously looking for love from these people they NEED to be with.
I used to think I NEEDED to find a man to love me. I used to think I NEEDED to find love but that was simply not true. Love is within us all constantly. We just have to accept it. Like ourselves for what we look like, how we sound, what we dress in. Love the way we are, warts and all. Respect ourselves. Look at our good points as well as our bad points. Then change the bad points that we can change and accept the ones we cannot.
Once we like and accept ourselves, we can enjoy our own company and the illusion of LONELINESS disappears. Once we do this then love in its truest form shines out from us and if its meant to be then a person will enter your life who you can share the rest of your life with and walk hand in had with along the sandy beaches. (I will need a sick bucket if I carry on in this way lol)
The other thing is those around us who look at you pityingly and say 'Ah, have you no man in your life' When people say this to me I say "No that's why I am happy". Or others who think you are weird for not having a man in your life, or say behind your back that you 'must be a lesbian'. This can come from women as well as men. They behave this way because they can see how settled and happy you are within yourself and just want to bring you down. Because they are secretly not as happy as they should be they have to hit out at those who are.
It is the same if you are a man, but it seems to be ok for men to be single for a long time. But for women, everyone has to label them something.
Take no notice of them. If you are single and happy about it and do not feel the NEED to go and find just anyone to be with you then there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with it at all.
People today rush into relationships for all the wrong reasons. They choose people who they think can take the loneliness away and solve all their problems for them but most of all love them. How can they love you when
1. you do not love yourself
2. they do not love themselves either
This is when they notice others around them appearing happy (looks can be very deceiving) and start moaning and looking for someone else to take their problems away. Not realising that the problem is within and only they can sort it out by taking a good long hard look at themselves. They cannot face their own problems and dislike the sound of their own thoughts that go around their head all the time. So they make themselves and their partners miserable.
They so desperately want to be loved and do not realise that they have the capability to love themselves.
So next time you feel the thought coming into your head that you are lonely. Ask yourself are you lonely or just feel alone. Then take a good look at yourself and your life, at your loving family around you, loving you unconditionally, at your pets, loving you unconditionally and at your friends who love you and are there for you and ask yourself are you really alone or just feel lonely.
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